Can I save my marriage?

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So true. Never thought of it that way. It could have meant absolutely nothing to him! Errr...

H went to the first MC session alone, then I went alone, then we went together so MC does know the WHOLE sitch. That's why he is working on my changes for the M. Also, when I talked to my MC the other day he informed me that he called H to check in and they set up a meeting. H hasn't told me that yet, but just him going again is a bonus. He hasn't gone since he moved out, so I'm hoping this is a positive step. We will see. You're right about the expectations thing. Until I am detached I will have them. And that's the basics. I understand that, so now I am going to work on detaching. I don't want those expectations. They just bring me down. Thanks citygirl.