I understand you GIMA, but doesn't patience fit in here someplace. EB has made changes, he has seen improvement in his sitch. Is not one of his options to sit tight, keep working on himself, and see if the improvement continues (even if it is ever so slowly). The improvement he has seen lately is in the direction of his ultimate goal. As of now, it would seem that time is working for him. Am I wrong EB?
sit tight/limboland/the waiting place are all places where you wait for someone else to get you out of the hole.
I advocate moving forward for your own good. Travelling the parallel paths of reconciliation and divorce and preparing to thrive the best you can under either outcome. Patience is most definetely needed but time is relative. It's what you do with the time.
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Patience is the companion of wisdom. - St Augustine
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When a man sits with a pretty girl for an hour, it seems like a minute. But let him sit on a hot stove for a minute and it's longer than any hour. That's relativity. - Albert Einstein
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
