Originally Posted By: britt54
I like it too. But how do you get him to realize you have your own plans?


By not taking part in his. If your plans start interfering with his, he'll start to get the point.

Especially if he asks you to change them and you say "no" or "you can't".

Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."