FLTC, STBX was invited by my sister to the wedding, not me. We went as a family because it made sense to do so. We had a good time but STBX and I do not spend time together except for family events. We normally don't call and chat except about family business but, the odd time, we do vent to each other and look for a little support. I honestly don't see how divorce will set me free! At this point, it is what it is. I also don't see any reconciliation in the future but I'm not at a point where dating is in the cards either. So, I'm OK right where I am. To each his own, I guess. Am I way off base here? Could be!