Coach, a little clarification would help. Yes. I agree about the texting though. Should I have just had sex with her? What is your angle? You think she is having at a minimum an EA if not PA and kissing/cuddling/being really close with me the past couple days to do a gut check for herself where she feels best? Or it's all fake because I had started detaching and she wanted control? I'm not objective here obviously. It's emotional to have things seem so much better and to analyze it for anything other than what you want/hope it to be, so please do share.
I also realize there are solutions here, it is more the overwhelming amount of people going through these tough times. I do better just not obsessing over the site all day and moving to something else to occupy my mind.
Sidenote: I forgot to mention that she called me 4 or 5 times yesterday and texted me a couple times too. I answered some of them.
Me: 30 W: 29 D: 20 months M: 5 years T: 6.5 years ILYBNILWY and want to separate: 10/5/2009
