Coach is spot on here. And especially about the part of limboland being a slow death - IT IS.
If you haven't checked out my thread since Thursday, I would encourage you to do that. I just can't take limboland any more. And, it's time for me to lead us out of that God awful place. Limboland serves a purpose sort of like a medic. If you have a gaping head wound, a medic can get you stabilized, but you are going to need to move past that point to a doctor for surgery.
While Limboland is comfortable and to some extent vaguely secure, it is an illusion. And it is not sustainable, unless you want an unhealthy R. And you deserve better.
So, I don't know where I'm leading my M, but it sure as he!! isn't staying in Limboland. And one way or the other, I will be happy eventually.
And, yes, it is scary b/c it is new to you and you know what one of the two possibilities are. But, that's just where you have to have faith and be strong. And, my friend, that is what I think makes the question "What choice do you have?" so important.
Lead.
I understand you GIMA, but doesn't patience fit in here someplace. EB has made changes, he has seen improvement in his sitch. Is not one of his options to sit tight, keep working on himself, and see if the improvement continues (even if it is ever so slowly). The improvement he has seen lately is in the direction of his ultimate goal. As of now, it would seem that time is working for him. Am I wrong EB?
