Somehow (I wonder why), your wife strikes me as a very self centered person and without having the knowledge, just a gut feeling, I think you will be getting more time with your kids than what the court "ordered". Not immediately but down the road. My L told me that, at least here, fathers fight for more and usually see the kids less because they soon "have other things to do". That "no father that wanted to be part of his kid's life" didnt because of the court's rulings. Life has a way to put things into perspective and when the dust settles, I hope your wife's activities will push her to the direction of your kids having more time with you because she will realise and accept that it will work better for all concerned. Plus the kids may express their wishes...
I wish you a peaceful and happy life. Soon. Love K
