She has been seeing an IC (as she doesn't want to work on the marriage, but does want help with her "feelings" for the OM). Just found out she has an appt tomorrow and the IC wants me to attend as well. I think its more for insurance reasons, but what can I expect as far as questions? The IC has had 4 sessions with her so far where they have discussed the affect of D on the kids and so on. How much do I divulge here with the IC about my new direction? Is this possibly the platform to set the boundaries or should I let the IC do her job (she is pro-family, pro-marriage) and see if anything clicks with my wife first?
Just want to make sure I express what I need to without screwing up my 180.
