I am jumping at every offer he makes me, but how do you get past the "fear"? The fear that if you don't take him up on his offer he will pull back and get angry in return from the rejection? I just don't want to make it seem like I don't want to eat that pizza with him. I guess scared he'll detach too then we are both detached
For starters you are no where near detached.
You are not responsible for his feelings. You are only responsible for your thoughts and actions.
Have you read up on "co-dependence" yet? it will help you immensely, I promise.
Cheers Coach
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
