I am not, however, willing to continue in a marriage with someone who is emotionally unavailable to me. I am not willing to continue in a sexless marriage. We are either proceeding to work on improving the marriage, or we are taking it apart. We are going for our initial consultation with the mediator on Tuesday. If you are willing, we can go back to counseling in parallel."
She's cake eating...not in the "A" sense of the term...but in the sense that she is enjoying the security of you providing for the family, but she offers nothing but "I'm unhappy and want space."
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Yes. She is.
Room, Board and a Scapegoat - what else does one need?
Yes, yes, and yes! Remember buddy, you did the work. You made the efforts to fix.
"My actions are my only true belongings. I cannot escape the consequences of my actions. My actions are the ground upon which I stand." Thich Nhat Hanh
