Can I save my marriage?

[TrentC]

I realize right now I am VERY available to him, I am jumping at every offer he makes me, but how do you get past the "fear"? The fear that if you don't take him up on his offer he will pull back and get angry in return from the rejection?

Take a chance; just try it once or twice. If you get the reaction you expect, then it is the wrong tactic to take.

Trent, I know you care. I appreciate every little bit of care you have in your body. I know you're tough on me sometimes, and I appreciate it more than you know. You took my situation on from the get go and I will forever be thankful. I come on here daily to hear your advice first and foremost.

I appreciate hearing that. That's why we are all here, to be a mutual support group.