Sometimes when it comes to detachment visualization can really help. You said you see your W as a magnet, able to pull you back in with any sort of contact. This sort of clearly shows you are not detached because any form of contact shouldnt have that much power over you if you were detached. It also shows you still have too much focus on your W and her power.
So put the focus back on you. Forget about your W being a magnet and visualize *something* around you that can repel a magnet.
If you were out in the woods you would spray youself with bug spray so you wouldnt get chewed to death. Because lots of bug bites are itchy and uncomfortable for a long time. When you have bug bites you finally get comfortable in bed then they start to itch and annoy you again.
So put on your "bug spray" so you dont get bit and suffer the lingering, painful, itchy and annoying consequences of being bit.
