Cy,

As an LBSer with an MLC spouse, something you are going to have to be is passive. Not passive aggresive...not that bullcrap.

But passive...most of the time.

Think of it like this.

90% of the time you are Tokyo.
10% of the time you need to be Godzilla.
Figuring out when is the hard part.


Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet