Damned if you do chuckle head. Better if you don't.
If we told you not to stick your tongue in an electrical socket...would you?
You aren't going to get her to see your truth. And that is what the truth is...subjective and relative to the person viewing it. Her truth is...willing ot bet, that you are a controling clinging fruitcake.
You change her truth by proving her perceptions wrong....over time.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK