Thanks So2.
It has been 4 years since I noticed the change, so it started before that. Guess I just am not a quitter,at least yet.

Steps forward, steps back but, he's working on it I think.
just need to remember to keep my mouth shut for now as I feel he is in withdrawl and toward the end. It is still up to him persay.

JAK

You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez