Yes, you are correct. He is not even close to what your kids deserve. They want any small piece of him they can get, damaged or not.

Holidays are very rough. Trust in your God, that he will turn things around for you and your children. Anticipate this nightmare ending. This can't go on forever Cagz, they can't keep this pace up forever. This small bit of knowledge gives me hope.

It is so unfair that our children suffer. It is not right, but as the saying goes, life is not fair. We have to teach our children how to handle these dark seasons.

You are an amazing and strong woman.


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11