Another thing I meant to say, one of your posts caught my eye when you mentioned your C thought your wife might be bipolar. That is the same thing I had thought initially and my C had thought so as well (not having met my H, just through what I described). Then I read DB and the chapter on MLC and I cried - it described my H to a T. The symptoms seem to be so similar in some ways but I have had several times the past few months when my H has opened up and shared things going on in his head (and it ain't pretty)and he has very deep MLC-type issues so that is what I believe is going on with him and seems to fit. I still don't totally discount bipolar as he does have it in his family but he had never shown any tendencies before.
