You should neither MAKE her move out, nor HELP her move out. She is an adult, and if she wants to run away from her marriage and her family, she can do that and you can't control her, but nor should you help enable it by letting her run up add'l debt FOR YOUR FAMILY (yes, the LOC is a family debt) so she can enjoy her runaway lifestyle.
So, absolutely NOT.
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It's important to note that my wife is still being caring and concerned for me, and is being very realistic about financial stuff. Neither of us will drag things through courts or anything.
I'm sorry to have to say this Indy, but I'm afraid she's only being that way to the extent that she's getting everything she wants from you right now. If you doubt me, say "no" to the line-of-credit thing above, do it nicely and as pleasantly as possible ("I understand you want your space right now, but that's your decision, not mine. I have to look out for the family, and I don't think it's a good idea for you to run up additional family debt to finance a second residence for you. You'll have to pay for that yourself.") . . .
. . . and then see how "nice" she continues to be, and let us know.
