[/quote] So, what do you want? What are you going to do? [/quote]
I would like to save the marriage. I'm not sure where to begin. I was thinking of setting some boundaries such as no texting in the house; no taking the children to the fitness studio; letting it be known that I will not finance the affair; and suggesting, given her profession of love for and emotional connection with OM that she consider moving out. Other than that I will avoid all R talks. Am I missing anything?
