Originally Posted By: CityGirl
I also wanted to add that you are the only one who can control expectations. And the more you wish for something that you have no control over, the greater your frustration will become. And really that is a HUGE obstacle to detachment.


This is a great point. whistle

Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."