You are right Citygirl. I do have HUGE expectations now after that day, and yesterday too, the whole family outing to the hockey game and having supper was something we did that three weeks ago was non existing. So it has given me these great expectations, and now i'm in trouble cause I'm living because of them.
Part of detaching is being able to really live and exist in the present. It is nice to have a family day (dinner, hockey game) but it was just ONE day. It doesn't necessarily mean (or not mean for that matter) anything. When dealing with a WAS its essential not to "string" events together. Take each positive exchange for what it is and nothing more.
