Great post John. I like your stuff and I totally agree most everything you write. There is too much enabling here...too much denial.....too much codependence I think. Many of us are afraid to scream out "THE EMPEROR HAS NO CLOTHES."

While I was DB'ing....I got many comments and cards from STBXW about what a great dad and husband I am/was. Since the filing, of course, I am a big pile of poo. LOL.

S'OK. I grieve for the time to be lost with my children.
FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;