I did the bad thing...way back...calling the OM. It doesn't get you anywhere. HOWEVER....exposing the affair IS recommended in most books. It destroys the excitement and secrecy of it. However, it CAN get her pissed off and CAN lead to depression after the loss of the R.

But then again....why let it continue? Download the pdf at wwwdotwomensinfidelitydotcom and this is explained.

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;