I am in Ontario as well. So under the same rules as you with the whole seperation and divorce laws.
I think taking a day off would not help me. At least when I am at work my mind is somewhat occupied. All I think of otherwise, it what my life will be like in 2 months. I try to tell myself that the loving thing to do is give up my happiness, so my wife can have hers. That looks great typed in a forum, but what about actually living a life you don't want for 40 years or more??
