Unstoppable

[dday101798]

Yes, you're right NCB, that is the difference, if you are certain yours just puts on an act, it's just an act. With my X, it's been almost clockwork that once every 3 or 4 months has an internal conflict where the person she was cries out for help to overpower the person she became.

I think the problem there is that since she convinced everybody around her that what she did had to be done, she really has no-one else to turn to and win that conflict, just me. Maybe that is why she has sent the request through the kids every now and then to reach out to certain members of my family?

I don't know. The company she keeps could care less of the truth. They are pretty much all divorcees and just want to live it up. Her immediate family are all money hungry, especially her father who she'd be at serious terms with should she finally kick OM to the curb, especially if the reason were a desire to put this all back together. I'm convinced her father only saw me as an investment, and when the M started going sour, so did that investment. How else can a father allow his married daughter to move in to his house with her "boyfriend" directly in front of his own grandchildren?

You see, there's just a lot of things that STILL don't add up at all. And when she gets the the look she has like now, last seen in July, where she questions what she's doing, and is open and truthful with me, I can safely say, it's not an act.