Thanks for checking in on my sitch. I do agree with you that right now, I am in a position where I am waiting on her to make all of the moves which means that she still controls this whole thing. I know that I need to make some very bold moves but at this point, they may have to be 180s because me leaving the house is not an option right now (especially financially). Whether she stays or goes (still don't know), do you have some suggestions for 180s that might make a powerful statement to her given my recent history of apathy and depression?
Thanks for the advice, I do feel myself getting stronger as I am no longer emotional at all around her. This was my first big 180. Just don't know how I should act if she remains in the house.
