Talking to him about sexual boundaries and not getting anything from me until he is home would just piss him off, and put that added pressure on him from me to come home.
I strongly disagree. As Trent said, this boundary is for YOU, not him, and it's either "The Right Thing to Do," or it's not. Whether or not it "pisses him off" is completely irrelevant. In fact, I'll say this, Britt: until you learn to begin to operate from a position of "What is THE RIGHT THING TO DO in this situation? What would God Himself have me do, if He were standing right in front of me?", rather than a position of "Will this make my husband angry? How will he react? How will his reaction make ME feel?" . . .
