and what is with the taking advantage of your plastered wife. did she say 'no' and you continued?
NO, I did not take advantage of her. She was a willing participant. The final straw was the time I did take advantage of her in a weak state. I would never do that again!
i quess i am confused by this, you "did not take advantage of her" but you "did take advantage of her in a weak state?"
What is it? I am assuming she still holds this against you.