Hi Oz, great to hear from you. I always look forward to hearing what you have to say because I think some of the behaviours your H was exhibiting are very similar to those I have experienced. And, it's great to hear the perspective of someone who has had success! Thanks, I am feeling that things are on the way up. I am just keeping is simple as possible.....back on the patience and no expectations mantra. Perhaps will text to morrow to see how the leg is.
Sanderika, I think the paleness is from poor sleep as I am having to lift my neck instead of simply rolling over. I came to H's door with my pen cos I had no expectation of going inside and no thought that he would give me the full guided tour!