The adventure chronicles

[AFWAW]

Got a text from her that said I want us to get along but I'm ready to move on. Tired of being in flux. Can't make you love me and tired of trying. Like trying to get blood out of a turnip.

I responded, So, you don't want me anymore and you're ready to move on huh? That was quick, do you have someone waiting for you or someone who is interested in you?

Her response at 2 in the morning(yeah, it woke me up) No, I'm just tired of this. I'm tired of hearing how hard it is to decide what to do. I screwed up and you don't want me. Let's just end it and be civil about it.

So, here's my take on this. She sees that she can't control me anymore and she's tired of trying. I think she loves me but I don't think she's going to try to change her behavior to try to make this work so we would be a team. Her first text is an indicator to me, "Can't make you love me and tired of trying." How can you make someone do anything? You control them, that's how. You can't make someone love, it's a choice. I still love her, I just don't love her behavior. It's damn disappointing that she can't see this.

Any thoughts? And no, I haven't responded to the last text.