It's interesting to read this after writing it. I think I probably could have just said, I understand that's how you feel and just acknowledged him. I tried to turn it around on him and asked him, what do you want to do? He got a bit pissy and asked me again if he should move back in. At one point I told him I wouldn't beg for him to come back.

I really had no idea he was still blame shifting and what not so that was eye-opening. The invite was a bad idea, this I know.

I just need to go dark a bit. I think I have been way too available and chatty!!

Last edited by LuLu; 10/27/09 11:03 AM.
Me 37
H 41
2-dd's (2,3)
T-14
M-10
D-Day 6/18/09 (MOW ended their brief "love" affair a few weeks later)
Separated- 7/3/09