Originally Posted By: stuck808
Tristan,

Actually the question about Saturday was just to make small talk. After she said 'no' very softly, I figured I 'd just let her have her quiet time.


Other questions for small talk:
"Did you help anyone today?"
"Did anything make you laugh today?"
"Did you learn anything new today?"
...

A couple of things about them. The answer to them is not a yes/no/fine answer. They force you to reflect on your day. They invoke positive emotions.

Finally, now that I ask them of my W and know that she will likely ask them in return; I look for opportunities to get them covered each day. It is good for my PMA.


Me: 36, W: 33, M: 10 yrs
Bomb: 1/09, Seperated: 9/09, Piecing Begins: 10/09

My story: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...t=91&page=1