Should I date while I detach?

[neversaydie63]

Hey Bdazed

Sorry to see you here and more importantly, that your W has or is in the process of filing -- that is no fun but I know a lot of fun but there are lots, and lots of people here in the same boat (not that that is going to make you feel better, but you are not alone)

I did find it interesting that you W got upset that you were out on a date, I actually think that might be a good thing but I am certainly not an expert here. Did she move out after the bomb or are you still together?

I would say that if still feel like you can put your R back together, then you really should stop dating. That is just my opinion but I think that would tend to agitate things worse if you are still hoping and trying to get your R back on track.

My W still has a lot of anger and when I read your posting about how she is acting, I could not help but think about my W, even though she has not filed yet (she did go to and attorney back in Jan) we have been living in separate houses for 6 months.

Anyway, good luck and keep us posted.

NSD