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One tip I do when I see someone I have contacted or they have contacted me is to print out their profile to a pdf or xps document for futher review locally. That way you dont keep showing up at the top of their "Who's viewed me" list each time you need a refresher course.

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One tip I do when I see someone I have contacted or they have contacted me is to print out their profile to a pdf or xps document for futher review locally. That way you dont keep showing up at the top of their "Who's viewed me" list each time you need a refresher course.

There's a good idea!

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Sorry Jeff, that does suck!!! But, if it is meant to happen, it will. And if you explained yourself good enough, there is nothing else you can do. I think she may need some time to cool off as you said...
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Well, it sounds like S11 is on the mend, though not quickly. He isn't going to school tomorrow, but the current plan is that he will go Thursday. Of course, plans are made to be broken!

I'm doing pretty well. I am still pretty perturbed to be wrongly accused of lying, but the more I think about it, the more I realize it is her issue, and not mine. It can only upset me if I let it. So, I will do as I told her I would, and not login to Match this week, and see if she contacts me. If not, well, let the fun begin! smile

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Yep, Kerry would say to keep moving along the buffet... wink
Seriously I hope she comes to her senses instead of missing out on a great guy like you!

Hope your son is on the mend. Mine still has that darn fever so school may be out tomorrow, too!


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Hi, Jeff,

Re: the woman on Match - tippy-toe away from that as fast as you can and thank your lucky stars you got this warning so early. There are issues there that you probably don't want to deal with.

Cheers,

Dia


The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.

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Jeff,

Dia has a good point.

Do you feel like she was thinking of you like her possesion?

Keep in mind that once you change your profile status to DIVORCED, the buffet line will have the covers taken off of so many more items.

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Dia, I think you are right. I know I didn't do anything to earn that kind of reaction. I think it would be best if I don't hear from her. I expect that she has been treated pretty poorly in the past, but I'm not responsible for that, and I can't fix it.

I have a feeling there are others out there!

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Thanks, Kerry!

I didn't have the feeling that she thought of me as a possession, but the evidence would suggest....

The full buffet line opens in 34 days, more or less!

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Glad the kiddo is feeling a bit better.

Quite a bit of drama over match! I agree that there are some wounds there that you can't do anything about.

I have to admit I got pissed off at RB about something one night (while I was at my retail job) because of my own wounds. But, he did have this girl friend over for dinner. Slightly different lol. (He was apologetic though, and I have since met her and seen pics of her bf and I like her)

But yes, there are many more people out there!


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