Can I save my marriage?

[TrentC]

Thanks. That has been my focus for the last week and will continue to be my focus for the future. I NEED to GAL, I realize that. It will be hard this week, as H is going away to play hockey this weekend and I'm keeping the kids for the days which he would normally have them. So in other words he will be doing good at GAL'ing this weekend and i will be with the kids. But I will just try and look at it as a momentary lapse. And I will pick it back up Monday when he takes the boys overnight again.

Getting a life does not have to be at the expense of your kids; they are part of your life.

Take them to the park. Try to find other (single?) parents with kids to network with.