I'm just morally confused and wondering how it will affect the DB'ing. Maybe this is the right way to go or maybe it will kill the M completely.
You do sound very confused b/c one second you are despartly in love with your W and the next second you "really like" those two women you met on line--and talking about commiting adultry. Don't you think you need to slow down a bit until you know your own mind? You don't have to be in any hurry. You sound too dangerous to let lose out there with all those women!
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
