GIMA, aren't you tired of pulling on that rope? Don't you think it is time to turn lose and live your own life? If she is ever going to wake up to the real world and discover her real feelings, you are going to have to start using TOUGH LOVE and stop working yourself to death and start relaxing (after you drop that heavy rope). I have read over and over how you are going to GAL more.......and you are killing yourself trying to use all these techniques. I think you have proven yourself....don't you?
You said yourself that you had nothing to lose....that you were already dead, but the truth is, GIMA, you are still scared to death to see her walk out that door! IMHO, dropping the rope "is" the LRT. Maybe sheer exhaustion from all this work you've done...will help you let go.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
