It's too late. As soon as I saw the messages I left the house. She telephoned to inquire whether I had been on her telephone. There must have been a trail as she immediately began to claim nothing was going on. It was only when I advised that I had forwarded the text did she acknowledge that he might have said "I love you". This was the precise message: "Subject: I love u have a great run xo" She must have telephoned another 15 times and left several irate telephone messages with statements to the effect that she's going to sue me for slander if I make "false accusations" and she's going to take me for everything I'm worth. When I got home she was extremely angry and told me repeatedly how I can kiss her ass. married 13 years together 14. Me 46; WAS 37. S12, S10 and D7. Bomb was dropped July 22. I knew (from the history section of the computer) that she had been looking at his FB photos every second day or so starting in July. I didn't think anything of it. However, I some some of your posts, Puppy, where you were telling others that the language the WAS was using had all the signs of a PA. The language was virtually identical to what WAS had been telling me. I think that made me face reality. On the way home I did stop in and tell her mother. She didn't believe me - he also serves as her personal trainer! Initially following the bomb i thought there were positive signs. She said she loved me (but that she just couldn't live with me) and initiated hugs on several occasions. However, that didn't stop her from retaining legal counsel. She's pushing hard but we're still a long ways off.
