Hi Blackie Hope you are still OK. I think you are doing well.
Quote: My cuz told me to chill out. In his words, "she is to confused now that things are in motions. She still wants to be with you but doesn't know how to do it." I hope that 's true. I can help guide her. If it's a pride thing, I'll eat the crap to save things. She does have a pride streak.
That is really sweet. Pride can get in the way. I think it is right that you need a way out for her that is not just backing down. She may feel she made a serious decision and to go back on it would be sort of fickle. I'm not sure exactly what would work for her. At least she needs to know everything will be different in future and I expect that is what you want too. But don't rush anything as your cuz says chill and give her some space to think things thru.
