Ok well I made a last ditch effort.

I asked to talk to her, to which she said if it weren't for kids she would never talk to me again. Blah,Blah,about what she did and i missed,etc. Told me to quit focusing on her.

I did not argue, just asked her to google a midlife crisis and said listen when ur gpa passed that was the final trigger,why else do u think u got so angry with me all the sudden. She said if that makes me sleep better at nite,great.

I did not argue or defend, apologized for areas she hit that were right on, said i can't do anything about the past.

i was making a last ditch effort, but i just googled mlc and there isn't really any of the symptons that i found when i first started looking this deal up.

by the way she said her cnslr told her she didn't agree so much with mlc, that wife had depression and now awakening from it.

Darned if I do, darned if i don't.