Poepad. I don't plan on bringing anything up. I'm sure she may know it was in the paper. She called me at work to ask if her brother can crash with us a night or two. She then talked about other things going on in her family. She spoke as if nothing was going on. Over the past few days, she has been very nice to be around and seems to like to come home rather than stay out. She actually seems as if she wants to talk to me and that shows by waking me up.
My cuz told me to chill out. In his words, "she is to confused now that things are in motions. She still wants to be with you but doesn't know how to do it." I hope that 's true. I can help guide her. If it's a pride thing, I'll eat the crap to save things. She does have a pride streak.
I hope I'm making progress. In the back of my head, I know I am. I do sense a change in her. More relaxed. She seems to be running a series of final exams on me. I think the fact that I said I didn't care if her bro stayed was a good step. In the past, I would say yes but be mad and let it show. She asked me did I mind if she went out of town to some craft mart in the next state. I guess she didn't have to ask me anything. She could have said she was at work and unless I went up there....
I see some positive and perhaps shouldn't be upset that the D finally made it to the paper 10 days after she said she filed. When she's gone, I may start reading these Mars & Venus books.
