Spouse Suffering From Depression

[awest1217]

Lucky you did the right thing. I completely understand. I would say just start planning things without H and if he asks to come along great, but don't plan on it. This way you don't have to get disappointed if H doesn't come, but if he does it is an added bonus.

With me, H says he is not physically attracted to me at all and doesn't think he ever will be. We are connected extremely emotionally, but that is about it so almost the exact opposite. It is hard because I want more physically, but I am scared it will never happen just like with you and the emotional side, but with you since he is depressed he isn't able to emotionally be there for you because he needs to control his own emotions before he can give them away.

Hoping for a great week!