New to this Community seeking advice

[JR09]

The calling plan is definitely going well. Now I call the boys, email them, and text them. Lots of communication options to make up for the absence of physical presence. Do you think my W is aware of it? I know,I know,I have to do this for ME and the boys. Just wondering if these efforts could be noticed by my W.

Another question is: what about my W's silence? I haven't spoken with her for awhile. But I know she gets my voicemails when I send one to check in with the boys. What's the meaning of my W's silence? I emailed her yesterday to ask about the plans she has for the boys for Christmas. I just asked her if she can give me dates so I can make plans on my end to take leave and have it approved by my superiors. No answers yet.

Anyway. I'm asking questions. Maybe I'm asking too much. I don't know. I don't know much anymore other than DBing as best I can, focus on being loving and patient, and strive to be a good father, even at long distance.

JR