Quote: When she came home, I was in bed just turning off the tv
Get the TV out of the bedroom, mistake I made, it steals connect time, read or listen to radio, or music. Make sure she does not have to compete with it. TV for sure out of the bedroom. If she asks, say you read somewhere it interfered with your sleep pattern. Actually it is was on Dr. Phil.
Quote: She then told me how her day sucked again. I wish I could do something about it other than listen.
Dude, have you read Mars/Venus, all you have to do is listen, thats all, that is helping.
Quote: This morning, she did the same thing. What I find interesting is she actually sat on the bed while talking. It's a king sized bed and she sat in the center on the edge. I thought that may be a small sign as I was still in it. Just minor talk. Before she left, she yelled up that she was leaving and returned my have a good day in a louder tone than 3 weeks ago. In the past, she would have just split. I would only know she was leaving by the garage door coming up.
See what active listening does, now get on those love languages.
Quote: I hope these are good small signs.
These are big, she is sleeping, and talking, remember sex is way down her list, NO PRESSURE!!
Don't forget christmas, start paying attention to what she is saying. Also nothing for the house or with a cord. Be creative. A nice touch would be flower delivered to her job, just before christmas.
