That would depend entirely on how safe YOU would feel in not having an explanation of what it is she's put in place. The whole point of a transparency plan is for the betrayed spouse to feel safe again in the relationship. It's the old "trust, but verify" thing. Unless it's something that you can verify from time to time, I can see where all of your old doubts and fears would start creeping up again, no??
Puppy
The thing is that she has been completely transparent as far as I know. Yes, she has had a little trouble with NC. But it has been him trying to contact her, not the other way around. She is giving a good faith effort to completely break all contact. I think I can give her a little time to perfect it.
