Counseling conundrums

[Dia]

Hi, Bunny,

My personal opinion is that you should get out now and proceed with D.

Think back before you met H and before the pressure to swing started. Were you happy and confident then?

My guess is that the big hit to your confidence and self-esteem is *because of* your H and the swinging. And him continuing to beat up on you verbally is just MORE assaultive behaviour on your self-image.

I absolutely do not think less of you for anything you've been through, or anything you've struggled with. Leaving this kind of R is hard. I know. I've been there.

Please leave as soon as you can.

Yours in Sisterhood,

Dia