I just popped onto the board to see what was going on and thought I would leave a little update. The update there isn't much of an update. Or at least there are no earth shaking developments.

I didn't hear much from the W yesterday other than to take the boy to get stuff for his crafts and could I pay a bill. When she came home, I was in bed just turning off the tv. She again came in to change complete with the bathroom and closet lights on. This time last year or even 8 months ago, that would have gotten a bad response from me. I just let it slide. She then turned the light off and kept saying my name in a low tone asking if I was awake. She then asked if I picked up the craft stuff and paid the bill. She then told me how her day sucked again. I wish I could do something about it other than listen. She then complained that she fell asleep while trying to see her man(country caterwalling guy) on tv. And that was it.

This morning, she did the same thing. What I find interesting is she actually sat on the bed while talking. It's a king sized bed and she sat in the center on the edge. I thought that may be a small sign as I was still in it. Just minor talk. Before she left, she yelled up that she was leaving and returned my have a good day in a louder tone than 3 weeks ago. In the past, she would have just split. I would only know she was leaving by the garage door coming up.

I hope these are good small signs. A friend from the board thinks so. I haven't been served with the papers she said she had filed. But, tomorrow may be a different story. My shields are up and I will try to remember it's just a piece of paper.

More to follow.....