Sorry you're having an unhappy anniversary. You have had some recent twists and turns in your situation. It must be very confusing to balance what is happening at home with all of the different feedback you are getting here.
Have you considered talking to a DB coach? I have worked with Jody over the past year and her advice has given me the best results of ANY friend or family member with whom I've confided. She has years of experience and is the BEST therapist I have ever worked with. Coaching is something you may want to consider.
