LRT - Does it leave open for OW?

[ClingingToHope]

I know I should try to follow it since H & I have been separated for almost a year now, but I also know that H needs daily interaction and confirmation and someone just to ask,"how are you doing today". So if it's not me, then it's going to be someone else. What have been people's results with the LRT technique and going dark?

Here's a simple rule -- that I haven't been good at keeping -- do what works and stop doing what doesn't. If you've been keeping up the daily interation and he hasn't made any moves toward reconciliation you are wasting your time. He is cake eating. He gets the attention he craves but doesn't have to recommit.

If he truly needs that interaction, don't give it to him. That's the premise here and if you read the success stories it's what they did. Make him miss you.

I've been terrible at this. I'll go a couple of weeks, then we'll have to talk because of the kids and I'll lose my patience and force an R talk and allow her the satistaction of rejecting me again.

I'm not going to do it anymore, haven't for three weeks now, am getting an attorney and making the moves to protect myself financially and rebuilding my social network.

Do you truly believe you are the one for your H, then even if some OW does move in eventually it will fade and he'll come back to you. They say here it's all about confidence.

Of course, it's easier said than done.