OMG, in some ways it has gone by so fast and others, it seems like a century has passed by. So much has changed this past year-it's unbelievable. Unfortunately, I sat in my anger and resentment for too long, so the first 6 months was such a waste and I just degraded our relationship further. Recently, I have tried to continue the daily interaction (or at the max - a couple of days), and he has responded favorably, but still, I am not seeing much progress towards reconciliation. I am trying to walk that very fine line of not overdoing it and coming off as 'pursuing' him - very difficult! At the beginning, I tried ignoring him so that he would miss me, but that backfired b/c when I did see him/interact with him, I would cry, beg for him to go to C, go off on him about OW. So yes, very counterproductive (def not Dbing). DBing definitely has improved the friendship of our relationship (we are no longer hostile enemies), but I still cannot tell if it will be enough to save our marriage. Trying to stay positive though!
Me 27; H 28; S 2 Togeth 9; M 4 Sep 11/14/08 EA OW1 Sep 08 EA OW2 Mar 09 EA OW3 Jun 10
